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Originally Posted by Dark kyuubi  Thats very enlightening thank you ill remember that ^^i saw that the part i obsurved to be a lie was the word "remotely" are you ok in w/e way he hurt u? |
edit: I used the word remotely, because this is something 999/1000 women would be upset about... and I wanted to be clear that I"m not.
I'm getting better with the hurt. I was a mess for a long time, but I'm starting to come back out of it. He never hit me... he was very emotionally and psychologically abusive. I covered the very lightest parts of it, barely skimming the top, with my lawyer, he took one look at my document and assured me there wasn't a judge out there that wouldn't grant me my divorce and anything else I asked for. I was suicidal when I asked for the divorce... it was end the marriage or end my life. Now, I'm finding my worth again, and creating a new person out of it all. All in all, though, I'm thankful for the things I learned in my marriage... about myself, about others, about communication, and really giving something everything you have. In that respect, I dont feel like I failed. I just wasn't the right person.
O dear... you should have reined me in long ago. Some subjects dont' have a short answer, do they??
Uhm... and we aren't alone anymore. *blush*