The Shitty Art of Dating
Posted 07-13-2012 at 05:07 AM by akatsuki16
Alright so tonight I went on a date/hang out with a chick I met at a bar a few days ago. She asked if I had any plans tonight, which I didnt; so I told her Id come hang out with her. So I picked her up, on the way to this bar we were goin to, we had some small talk, got to know her a little bit, and regardless of her tellimg me that she was a stripper for a week, I was into her. (Mainly because she was really cute) And I know that sometimes people do stupid things for cash money.
When we got to the bar, her friends were there. Which I was cool with because it wasnt an ""official date". However after about hanging out for about 5 minutes, one of her friends was telling her that they were gonna leave soon and pressuring her to go with them. So about 5 more minutes pass and she gets up to go to the bathroom. Not a minute after her friends get up to go look at the volleyball courts apparently. And just leave me sitting by myself without asking me if I wanted to go with them, I pretty much didnt exist to them. Because after about 10 more minutes of me waiting for.my "date" to get back, she texts me and tells me that she ledt with her friends, even though she didnt even say bye. She said that she was looking for me to.say bye. But I was in the exact same spot at the bar almost the entire time. I told her that and all she said was "damn."
So long story short, I got ditched and had to drive 30 minutes back to my friends while I was kinda drunk. And Im still feel bad about it because I kinda liked her. And being stood up/ditched has never happened to me before. So I was shocked and incredibly pissed off. Because honestly, Im not bragging but Im a pretty good looking guy and I have an amazing sense of humor which always makes fmy first dates good. And never in a million years would I have thought that I wouldve been ditched by a girl the first time we hung out/ went on a date.
I just wanted to post this on here because it feels good to write about some of the stressful things like dating going on in your life. And I've had really rough experiences with dating these past few months. For example, one girl I broke up with is telling me shes pregnant, and is threatening to put a restraining order on me, just because I went over to her house, only once after we broke up, to make her take a pregnancy test. She refused, slammed the door shut and threatened to call the police.
So.I.thought this girl wouldve been the pick me up I needed. Apparently not. Im not being rude when I say this but dont bother saying things like " dont worry, theres plenty of other fish in the sea", basic advice like that. Because Im not knew to dating, and have had plenty of experience with it; Im 22, not 12.
Also sorry for the.bad grammar. Smart phones arent the best source for typing
want to know if someone else has been in the same boat
When we got to the bar, her friends were there. Which I was cool with because it wasnt an ""official date". However after about hanging out for about 5 minutes, one of her friends was telling her that they were gonna leave soon and pressuring her to go with them. So about 5 more minutes pass and she gets up to go to the bathroom. Not a minute after her friends get up to go look at the volleyball courts apparently. And just leave me sitting by myself without asking me if I wanted to go with them, I pretty much didnt exist to them. Because after about 10 more minutes of me waiting for.my "date" to get back, she texts me and tells me that she ledt with her friends, even though she didnt even say bye. She said that she was looking for me to.say bye. But I was in the exact same spot at the bar almost the entire time. I told her that and all she said was "damn."
So long story short, I got ditched and had to drive 30 minutes back to my friends while I was kinda drunk. And Im still feel bad about it because I kinda liked her. And being stood up/ditched has never happened to me before. So I was shocked and incredibly pissed off. Because honestly, Im not bragging but Im a pretty good looking guy and I have an amazing sense of humor which always makes fmy first dates good. And never in a million years would I have thought that I wouldve been ditched by a girl the first time we hung out/ went on a date.
I just wanted to post this on here because it feels good to write about some of the stressful things like dating going on in your life. And I've had really rough experiences with dating these past few months. For example, one girl I broke up with is telling me shes pregnant, and is threatening to put a restraining order on me, just because I went over to her house, only once after we broke up, to make her take a pregnancy test. She refused, slammed the door shut and threatened to call the police.
So.I.thought this girl wouldve been the pick me up I needed. Apparently not. Im not being rude when I say this but dont bother saying things like " dont worry, theres plenty of other fish in the sea", basic advice like that. Because Im not knew to dating, and have had plenty of experience with it; Im 22, not 12.
Also sorry for the.bad grammar. Smart phones arent the best source for typing
want to know if someone else has been in the same boat
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mm to her it is just a game if you are looking for something more then a fling, she don't sound like it, unless you want to become a jerk. Girls with that mindset will stick to jerks because they can't truly have them.Quote:Originally Posted by akatsuki16
Shes actually older than me. Surprisingly enough. But apparently still has the mindset of a teenager to ditch me like that.
For what happened yeah basically her friends said lets go, they probably said ditch the date, and instead of facing having to tell you she was gonna leave without giving you an invite she just left and played dumb about not being able to find you.Posted 07-13-2012 at 08:19 AM by narusasu1
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Yea, theres alot of different possibilties but thankfully the more I talk about it the less I care. The main reason why I posted this blog in the first place was because Ive had suck shitty luck with women for about 5 months now. One ruined my car, another made me depressed as shit because I never got to see her, my previous ex who says shes pregnant(Which I dont really believe bit it still worries me a little) And now this.chick. So as you can see I havent had the best of luck these past few months lol.Posted 07-13-2012 at 08:28 AM by akatsuki16 - I gotta ask how did she ruin your car, and for the ex with the pregnancy claim, even if she was, but if your gut says no I would go with that, but I would say paternity test if she was.Quote:Originally Posted by akatsuki16 Yea, theres alot of different possibilties but thankfully the more I talk about it the less I care. The main reason why I posted this blog in the first place was because Ive had suck shitty luck with women for about 5 months now. One ruined my car, another made me depressed as shit because I never got to see her, my previous ex who says shes pregnant(Which I dont really believe bit it still worries me a little) And now this.chick. So as you can see I havent had the best of luck these past few months lol.
I would of been pissed off too if someone just left me hanging like that and then pulled a stupid story like that.
Just go out have fun stop caring one way or another how things go, they will come to you then, and keep a light I don't give a flip attitude until you know there is good reason too and you want to.Posted 07-13-2012 at 08:40 AM by narusasu1 - Well I said in my blog that I tried.to get her to take a test but she wouldnt do it. She says.she has an ultra sound this month but Ive yet to hear about it. And the girl that ruined my car just accidentally backed into it. But I also havent heard from her or from her insurance so it's still not fixed.
Nah, I stay true to myself. The only timr I give the "I dont give a shit" attitude is when I truly dont. Which yea, for my previous ex who says shes pregnant, it did make her want me more lol. But unless its a quick rebound, Im looking for something serious, so I'll be myself around girls Im actually interested in, even if it drives them away a little, because if it does then that means we probably wouldnt work out in the future anyways.Posted 07-13-2012 at 08:57 AM by akatsuki16 - ahh well if she did want you more because you lost interest it would explain the pregnancy claim.
I would be getting intouch with her insurance company then or having my insurance do it for me.
I did not mean literally not giving a shit persay, I just meant to not let it bother you, don't worry how it is going to go or not go, just let things happen and if they don't just keep as you said being yourself. I found (as cliche as it sounds) you actually do find what you are looking for when you are not looking for it or expecting it.Posted 07-13-2012 at 09:37 AM by narusasu1 -
Erm...ok. :PQuote:Originally Posted by akatsuki16 Told you I have an amazing sense of humor. Wanna go out sometime?
We can share him. :PQuote:Originally Posted by Devil Bat You've wooed me. If it doesn't work out with her I call next.
Always and forever my friend.Posted 07-13-2012 at 03:20 PM by ruhena -
*shrug* on to the next?Posted 07-13-2012 at 03:27 PM by Muanyata -
First of all she was a stripperPosted 07-20-2012 at 04:58 PM by Pexster
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