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[Tyeboi777]

Fine just what Now......

[scar47]

ive got a lot of people who vierw this thread and dont talk... weird

[Tyeboi777]

*slaps Scar for going off topic*

Re: boyfriend problems, trust me, you'll all get over them. You'll move on and learn from them, just like crysjarl (go you! I admire you a lot.) And you'll get back out there. I'm in the same boat myself, but believe I'll be in a good relationship when I'm ready and find someone worthy enough to date me. (And you should all think that way!) I had a boyfriend for so many years it's slightly frightening, at least it scares others, and thought we were going to get married. We started dating too young, were together too long, and were both far too immature. I finally grew up, and realized we wanted different things and that I'd never be happy with him in the long run. I ended up breaking up with him, and haven't dated since, not really knowing "how" to. I feel left behind a lot of the time, compared to other people my age, who are getting married and such, and I would've likely been married to him by now. Best decision ever, I am sure of it every day!

Susa: I'm very sorry that's happening with your family, but you're all at least being proactive enough to go to therapy together. You have to also think of the hardships your mother is going through herself; rarely do we ever see our parents as actual people, but forces in our lives we assume are much stronger than ourselves. Perhaps your mother did not realize that it hurt you when she didn't hug you back. I wouldn't take it as having been intentional. Only when I got older did I learn anything about my mother as a person, things she dealt with I didn't understand as a kid, and we had a VERY tough relationship when I was a teenager. I forgave her and acknowledged my own mistakes and misbehavior (man was I a brat!), and now she's my one of my best friends.

And my grandmother always used to say: this, too, shall pass.

[Tyeboi777]

Fey Who is "Re:"?

Haha sorry, regarding boyfriend problems in general.

Eyeshield: it is shock. I didn't cry for my aunt until I was at her funeral. I didn't believe she was really gone until I was faced with it. Same with one of my friends who passed away a few years ago. It's really normal, so don't feel badly about it.