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“Well that’s easy nii-chan, because all girls like bad boys..” umm.. I know..
And don’t you worry I’m not that too good.. because no else is.. I mean if someone seemed to be too good then that person is ‘too good to be true’ – he or she is a fictional character.

No, even if I reverted back to my toxic-self I would never treat you like a rock on the side of the road.. I would still treat you with respect like I do now.. but I bet you could never understand the moody side of me.. that side can be quite dark, depressing and gloomy.. like.. the Dark Knight - Batman.. Lol!

Ok.. why would be scared of ur bad side?? I would even embrace it.. Ü

So you love surprises ey.. yeah I love surprises too.. and this might even surprise you.. I may seem a methodical and analytical person but I also love doing things spontaneously. So that makes me what? Like I’m suffering from ADHD?

Can I ask, why you hate being or getting drunk? Cuz almost everybody out there loves getting drunk.. well almost.. cuz I’m also one of those exceptions.. I only drink when I’m alone or having love-problems and not to the point of I can’t even recognize myself in the mirror.. no way.. I don’t like loosing control.. well I guess it depends.. haha!

Neechan: “but that’s is so, so dark and morbid…”

Niichan: “You think so? Lol! I guess I’m just a realist..”

For me a birthday is just another milestone in one’s journey called Life..
In the end, people will not remember us for our birthdays (no matter how many or lavish they were), they will remember us for what kind of people we really are not just for a single day, but how we lived our whole life.
It’s the legacy that we built for our name – I guess that’s what truly matters.

I know it’s kinda profound, but I’ve been to many funerals in life including my very first bestfriend, then a very close friend not so long ago, family friends, relatives, etc. And for sure you’ve also been in some of them, right? So base on ur experience what do people talk about? The Life of the deceased one, yeah not just a single day of his life but practically how he lived his whole life. How kind-hearted, sympathetic, generous, brave, patient, loving that person was or otherwise. And how did he become that way? It’s the manner how he lived his life.

Neechaaaaaan.. * sobs.. cries.. wails.. Diamond is finally voted out from X-Factor.. I hate the judges!!! I hate em all!!!

“We all have our ways to celebrate things in our lives..” yeah I totally agree.. but personally, I don’t know, I really don’t give birthdays too much of an emphasis.. Don’t get me wrong but when it comes to my friends’ birthdays I do give my all just to make it memorable and special, but when it comes to my own – it’s just another day.. I guess smth happened, right? yeah maybe but I’ll save that story for another time.

Neechan can I ask you smth, why being a bad boy makes you somehow comfortable for some reason? Do you want me to revert back to my bad-boy ways? LOL! You wouldn’t like me reverting to that form again cuz like I said I was quite toxic and full of hate.. baaad niichan..

Happy Thanksgiving to you too! We should give thanks to God for all the abundant blessings we received the entire year.
So I guess somehow we should also try to extend those blessings to the less fortunate ones who may not be as blessed like us, agree?

Thank you so much for the greetings neechan! I really appreciate it..

More or less you already knew what transpired during my birthday, right? (I simply like making other people happy) I know you might say: “..nii-chaaan?! That is so, so boring! Why can’t you have 'awesome birthdays' like mine.. like how my laptop went kaboom and gone completely crazy on me.. and how I slept for only three hours during that day.. and.. I didn’t even see my fave footy game in it’s entirety.. cuz my eyes were so dang droopy.. niichaaaan!!!! grrrr..” Lol!
I know it’s my fault (because of that video).. how can I make amends somehow?

"What defines you as a person?
Is it the day you were born?
Does it matter if it’s autumn or winter?
Is it your height, weight or the color of your skin?
Does it count if you have good genes or not?
Would it help if you’re named after a hero or a saint?
If you were born with a handicap would that make you less of a person?
Or does it matter if your parents are even together or not?

What defines you – is You..
Your love, your faith, your hope, your compassion, your sympathy;
Your ability to forgive 'though you are in pain;
The depth of what you can sacrifice,
To be fearless when it’s so easy to be afraid,
To endure when it’s so much easier to give up..

In the end, it doesn’t really matter which day a person is born,
Or whether he has good genes or not.
What matters most is how we have chosen to live our lives
And how it made a difference in people’s hearts..”


Wishing you all the best - Always.. Happy Birthday!

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